Today...
I walked the longest distance by foot to an atm at the Expo.
I was a part of a small group gathering of people who have scattered after they got attached or married.
After the gathering, I took the car of one of the friend of a friend home, and three of us started to discuss about the sg men and sg women issue. I wanted to stop when they asked me why don't I have a boyfriend, cuz I know I may insult the both of them, as I will get really fiery when you get me started on sg men. But they took it off there and started to share with me that the girls in their church are materialistic. And all that kinda stuff...
What really touched my heart was that my friend repeatedly emphasised that I am not a materialistic girl. That I am not that kinda of person.
Wow. This is one of the kind of praises I like to hear. Haha... :) This friend is one of those blokes who kena hard hard by me when he underperform his duty as a man. (Hello... I mean gentlemenly gestures hor.. ) But he is not bad lah, at least he takes our advice and improves from there. Think now he is better than he was. More confident, more steady. Good for him.
At first, we were kinda excited to saw his message that he is bring a friend to join us. We thought, wah, at last, good for him, he has found a girlfriend. But our spirits dropped notches down when we saw a guy standing next to him when we arrive.
But Ok lah. That fella, even though is the youngest among us, is rather sociable with the rest.
But these blokes seemed really hurted by the materialistic girls... and sad. I mean, from the way they relate on how people of the same "status" are more matching to people of the same calibre. Or when they say why some girls, even though they are not pretty or talented, still ask for alot in a guy.
Power to them. May them find the right Special Someone in their lives.
I was a part of a small group gathering of people who have scattered after they got attached or married.
After the gathering, I took the car of one of the friend of a friend home, and three of us started to discuss about the sg men and sg women issue. I wanted to stop when they asked me why don't I have a boyfriend, cuz I know I may insult the both of them, as I will get really fiery when you get me started on sg men. But they took it off there and started to share with me that the girls in their church are materialistic. And all that kinda stuff...
What really touched my heart was that my friend repeatedly emphasised that I am not a materialistic girl. That I am not that kinda of person.
Wow. This is one of the kind of praises I like to hear. Haha... :) This friend is one of those blokes who kena hard hard by me when he underperform his duty as a man. (Hello... I mean gentlemenly gestures hor.. ) But he is not bad lah, at least he takes our advice and improves from there. Think now he is better than he was. More confident, more steady. Good for him.
At first, we were kinda excited to saw his message that he is bring a friend to join us. We thought, wah, at last, good for him, he has found a girlfriend. But our spirits dropped notches down when we saw a guy standing next to him when we arrive.
But Ok lah. That fella, even though is the youngest among us, is rather sociable with the rest.
But these blokes seemed really hurted by the materialistic girls... and sad. I mean, from the way they relate on how people of the same "status" are more matching to people of the same calibre. Or when they say why some girls, even though they are not pretty or talented, still ask for alot in a guy.
Power to them. May them find the right Special Someone in their lives.
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