Hello. I don't know what to write about what has happened for the past 2 days. But I want to write something.
Thursday I was still in a lil bit of relax mode. The only major thing I did was to go for hair rebonding. Had intended to go do some shopping stuffs after that, but din expect to stay in the hair salon for 4 hours! Anyhow, I got the shopping done the next day. Sis was still doing something to the guestbook before the big day! She was quet though... dunno what is that suppose to mean...
Saturday, D. woke up at 4.30am! Her voice awaken the rest of us and we got up by about 5am to start to get ready. People start to stream in and the gatecrashing thing and whatever proceeded. Now that I recall, it's quite an event, and it's different when your own sister is the one who gets married, and not a friend...
Cut the long story short, I think all the stresses and unpleasantness are natural processes to the wedding day. Can truly understand why the pressure is on the couple. And what a relief it is for the both of them now that it's over.
Oh, on Saturday, brother commented that it's strange not to have sis around. And although for me, I treated her frequent absence from home before her wedding day as an pre-empt, it still felt different. Because this time round, she is not going to come back at 11 or 12 midnight. She has her own home at another place, that is her new home. No more of her getting excited about little things and me reacting in half-excitement. Come to think of it, I had been really rude, hadn't I? :(
I can't help it, my mind were too occupied with church stuffs.. I have realised that I've lost a lot on human relationships with my involvement with church stuffs. Because they became so overwhelming, my interaction at home is mostly with the computer and not with family members. I am apologetic, and I will strive to restore them in 2006.
Well, a new day has started for our family. Just wish all the best for the new couple and that with this new phase, we will have better relations in the days ahead, even though there were tensions in the process of preparation.
Amen!
Thursday I was still in a lil bit of relax mode. The only major thing I did was to go for hair rebonding. Had intended to go do some shopping stuffs after that, but din expect to stay in the hair salon for 4 hours! Anyhow, I got the shopping done the next day. Sis was still doing something to the guestbook before the big day! She was quet though... dunno what is that suppose to mean...
Saturday, D. woke up at 4.30am! Her voice awaken the rest of us and we got up by about 5am to start to get ready. People start to stream in and the gatecrashing thing and whatever proceeded. Now that I recall, it's quite an event, and it's different when your own sister is the one who gets married, and not a friend...
Cut the long story short, I think all the stresses and unpleasantness are natural processes to the wedding day. Can truly understand why the pressure is on the couple. And what a relief it is for the both of them now that it's over.
Oh, on Saturday, brother commented that it's strange not to have sis around. And although for me, I treated her frequent absence from home before her wedding day as an pre-empt, it still felt different. Because this time round, she is not going to come back at 11 or 12 midnight. She has her own home at another place, that is her new home. No more of her getting excited about little things and me reacting in half-excitement. Come to think of it, I had been really rude, hadn't I? :(
I can't help it, my mind were too occupied with church stuffs.. I have realised that I've lost a lot on human relationships with my involvement with church stuffs. Because they became so overwhelming, my interaction at home is mostly with the computer and not with family members. I am apologetic, and I will strive to restore them in 2006.
Well, a new day has started for our family. Just wish all the best for the new couple and that with this new phase, we will have better relations in the days ahead, even though there were tensions in the process of preparation.
Amen!
0 Comments:
Post a Comment
<< Home